It’s my
pleasure to introduce my 2nd guest writer for this blog, my new
friend, Warrior Ssebandeke Ashiraf, who joined sickle cell advocacy at the
young age of 14 years after realizing the ignorance about sickle cell in his
community. In 2012, after his 2nd year in university, he joined
sickle cell association of Uganda that was driven by his passion to learn and understand
sickle cell better. With knowledge and better understanding, he managed to
joined Sickle Cell Warrior USA as a Uganda Team Leader.
Ashiraf
graduated in Bachelor of information and office management at Marakere
University Bussiness School in 2013. He is the country reresntative and Kampala
Correspondant for Africa Sickle Cell News and World report Nigeria. He is
currently working as public Relations Officer of Sickle Cell Network Uganda
(SCNU) which he co-founded in 2013.
SCNU is a
sickle cell advocacy organization with an aim in improving the quality of lives
of Sickle Cell warriors. His bigger vision is to realise a sickle cell free
generation. Ashiraf also advocates for Renal Medullary Carcinoma, a rare type
of Kidney Cancer that effects majorly sickle cell traits.
Ashiraf is a two-time
nominee of WEGO Health Activist of the Year in 2013 and 2014. This year, he was
honored the International Sickle Cell Advocate of the Year 2015 by
SickleCell101.org to recognize his efforts into raising sickle cell awareness
in his community.
Reproductive Health & Sickle Cell Disease
For
many years’ sickle cell, has been an infant disease, so little attention was
given to managing the disease in adults. Those who now graduate from pediatric
to adult healthcare face a management vacuum.
Historically
medical treatment, programs, projects and policy formulation have rarely taken
into account the reproductive health expectations and experiences of people
with sickle cell disease.
Adult
with sickle cell disease are a serious risk in a crisis that has been brewing
for decades. They get sicker than other adults. They are victims of
cultural-socio-economic stigma. They are reluctant to see reproductive health
professionals and if they finally try to, they face barriers to information and
care.
People
with sickle cell disease’s reproductive health care is an essential component
of building on complete and inclusive healthcare system and achieving optimal
overall health. However there is an increasing crisis in the health and well
being of people with SCD.
Information is power and whoever has the information has
the power to make an informed decision. Limited reproductive health information
for people living with sickle cell has made them vulnerable. Unlike other
groups of people with chronic disease who receive appropriate reproductive
information like HIV patients, sickle cell patients do not have the opportunity
to receive the information they need.
Reproductive health information is not a “one shoe fits all” so each class of people must receive information that fits that group.
There are several reproductive health issues affecting people with SCD including
Reproductive health information is not a “one shoe fits all” so each class of people must receive information that fits that group.
There are several reproductive health issues affecting people with SCD including
·
Menstruation
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Sickle cell status disclosure
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Pregnancy
·
Sex and freedom to parenting
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Men with sickle cell disease
Menstruation
Girls with sickle cell
disease always have delayed menstruation periods compared to other girls. If a
reproductive health educator don’t pass on this information to these girls they
will be affected as they may think that they are abnormal.
Many girls with sickle cell disease have a more than one
year of delayed menses. Everybody in this world wants to move at the same pace
as peers. Nobody wants to be the last person. The frustration and long waiting
causes trauma and psychological torture. Just imagine the school emphasizing
that every girl of your age should come with sanitary towels enough for the
school term. You carry the sanitary towels and don’t use them because you have
not started.
Although menses onset is delayed in female with sickle
cell disease, menstrual bleeding patterns are normal. An unfortunate feature of
menstrual bleeding in women with sickle cell disease is its association with an
increased sickle cell related pain rates. Increased sickle cell related pain
occurs at different stages of menstrual cycle.
In people with sickle cell the red blood cells have a
life span of 10-20 days compared to those without
sickle cell which last for 120 days in the body. The body has to struggle and
manufacture blood. On top of these losses the monthly menses vampires also suck
blood.
The mean monthly in some people brings pain. It is more
common among people with sickle cell to prepare themselves for the pain to
come. For a number of ladies I have interacted with when that period of the
month approaches they have to either stock painkillers or get their stuff ready
for hospitalization. It feels awkward to be their waiting for pain which you
have no control over.
"I have to spend 5 days a month in crisis due to my
periods" one of my friends told me. She has to struggle for 5 days a month in pain until when the periods ends.
This translates into 60 days of pain annually. This discounts other crisis. For ladies with sickle cell disease monthly pain should
not be an item on your menu. You can always overcome your pain by eating a
balanced diet. Invest in using blood boosters even when the vampire sucks your
blood your Hb does not drop.
Pain is not virtue.
Sickle Cell Status Disclosure
Sickle Cell Status Disclosure
The politics of the sickle cell gene and relationship is
one of the major challenges in sickle cell. Almost every person who is battling sickle cell disease
will tell you that they would not even want their enemy to experience the
sickle cell pain. Every one would not want to bring to this world a child who
will be in pain all their lives, the guilt that will haunt you for all your
life.
The first step to prevent the birth of a child with
sickle cell is knowing your genotype and that of your partner. You can only
know when you disclose the status to your partner. Adult men and women with sickle cell are confronted with
the challenge of communicating their status to partners and deciding with their
partners what their plans will be in advance of pregnancy.
You don't need to have the conversation too late for the
sake of openness in the relationship or too early to avoid presumption of long
term commitment early in the relationship. You need to repeat this type of
communication as partners change throughout the child bearing years. Once
partners have communicated about their sickle cell disease or trait status, the
first decision maybe whether to have a baby a decision that may be influenced
by the social network.
If a man or woman with sickle cell disease decide to have
a baby and want to be certain that the baby does not have sickle cell disease a
partner must have neither sickle cell disease or sickle cell trait or be aware
of the advances in assisted reproductive technology and prenatal testing that
are available to support this decision. The woman also need to be fully aware of the potential
physical consequences to herself during pregnancy.
Sickle Cell and Pregnancy
Women look for happiness in having children and the
process of getting children is through pregnancy. Even men are always happy to
be fathers, being a husband alone is not enough to satisfy one’s soul.
For women with sickle cell getting pregnant is not a walk
in the park. To many parents who have adults daughters with sickle cell they
discourage them from getting pregnant for fear of dying while holding that
pregnancy. Many women with sickle cell become pregnant without first getting the
information on the complications of pregnancy. This is because their parents
and friends always discourage them, Who would not like to have the joy of
having a baby? I think no one.
image Source: http://www.cardiffandvaleuhb.wales.nhs.uk/sickle-cell-info-for-health-professionals |
The reproductive freedom of adult women with SCD might be
restricted because of their illness. A number of women with sickle cell have
been forced to terminate their pregnancies not because it was too risky but
only because they have sickle cell disease.
The closure of opportunities for people with sickle cell has forced them to get
pregnant with little forethought or opportunity for well-informed reproductive
health decisions.
Pregnant women with SCD are at risk for pregnancy-related
complications such as bleeding, infection, hypertension, and preterm labor, and
more sickle cell manifestations during pregnancy, such as worsening anemia and
more frequent pain episodes.
Because women with SCD are at risk for pregnancy-related
complications as well as the potential teratogenic effects of Hydroxyurea,
contraception counseling is paramount to decreasing unplanned pregnancies.
It is highly advisable that before any woman with SCD get
pregnant she needs to first consult specialist and weigh in the problems vs
benefits of becoming pregnant.
During the period of pregnancy you should visit both your
antenatal and sickle cell clinic for proper management.
Sex and Freedom To Parenting
Sex and Freedom To Parenting
Getting a partner is what every person would like. The first question most partners ask is ARE YOU ABLE TO TAKE PART IN SEXUAL ACTIVITY? Those with sickle cell
disease have been asked this question several times. At times the answer is
difficult but the answer is yes. Sickle cell disease affects the red blood
cells but doesn’t affect the sexual ability of a person. Forcing people to become parents has been condemned but
denying people with sickle cell their parenting right has been a silent issue.
Choosing to have a child is an unquestioned right, yet society insists that
people with sickle cell disease justify and defend their decision.
There are a number of misconceptions about people with
sickle cell disease. Misconception include that they are not sexually active,
asexual, uninterested in sex, unable to take part in sexual activity. Many reproductive health care providers are unprepared to
discuss issues of fertility, conception and pregnancy with people living with
sickle cell disease. For people with sickle cell disease their desire for
freedom to have sex and bear a child is no different than other people.
Curtailing of their freedom is a cause of crises to many.
Always people with sickle cell disease have delayed
puberty but this does not mean that they don’t finally get to full puberty. We
all have the same feelings about sex whether you have sickle cell or not. Lack of information about sex amongst people with sickle
cell disease creates a fear for getting involved in sex. Those who mange to
start, do it with a lot of uncertainties. They do not know how to do it, the dos
and don’ts among other things.
For decades discussing sex and sickle cell disease has
been a no go area. Sex a vigorous activity which needs to be engaged in with
caution. Sex is the same whether you have sickle cell or not. The only
difference is that we have to take more precautions than others do.
You have to take water before, during sex breaks and
immediately after. You should also be cautious about the sex style you choose.
Sex styles that stresses the joints are not good for your health. An understanding partner is a bonus because this partner
should be understanding enough and supportive when you reach your limit.
Men With Sickle Cell Disease
Always men are silent on matters concerning their health.
There a few men who stand out to speak about health issues they face every day.
Even in advocacy the voice of men despite having "bigger" voices are
silent.
Ellen Weinstein |
Reproductive health information gap has not been only for
women but also men are affected too. It’s more common to boys when they get to their puberty
age to have their voices deepen. It’s a feature that many use as a tool to show
that they are now grown up and assert their relevancy in the society.
The deepening of voice in most male with sickle cell
delay. Most male with sickle cell disease have delayed growth which affects
their self-esteem."YOU CANNOT SIT ON THE TABLE OF MEN WHEN YOU ARE STILL A
CHILD" that's the statement they always hear from their peers. At this
time age does not matter it’s the features you have that matter. Delay affects
every aspect that concerns the sexual development including: enlargement of the
scrotum, and testicles, lengthening of the penis, enlargement of seminal
vesicles and prostate gland, growth of pubic hair, growth of hair on face and
in the underarms.
Sickle cell does not only bring the physical pain but
also the psychological pain. It is only that the effect of mental health on the
lives of people with sickle cell disease. It’s surprising that even when the men’s voices finally
deepen they remain silent about issues concerning them. Do you want women to
speak on issues concerning you?
Conclusion
The desire for freedom to bear children is no different
than those without sickle cell disease. There is a continuous need to have
equal access to reproductive health services, including sexual health education
and access to contraceptives.
Lack of access to reproductive health information can
prove to be dangerous to people with sickle cell disease who can not receive
adequate reproductive healthcare.
Children of people with sickle cell disease are sometimes
seen as victims and their parents are scrutinized for their choices and their
right to parent. They are labeled as unfit parents.
a very powerful story, i am Richard Ochieng married to a sicklecell lady who is now 34years old and we gave birth to two handsome boys who do not have sicklecell because myself i am not a carrier or a sicklecell.+254725234719
ReplyDeleteThanks Richard for appreciating
DeleteThis is a great piece. Some of it is factually inaccurate, for example girls always have delayed menses--not true.
ReplyDeleteLargely, I appreciate your addressing the issue of warriors being discouraged from biological parenthood. It's disgusting but just another way in which the things we deal with regarding sickle cell are deeply rooted in anti-Blackness.
They developed entire protocols to make sure folks with HIV could reproduce and now there hasn't been an infant born with HIV in SF since 2005.
If they wanted to do work around SCD, it could be done.
Menses in girls with sickle cell delays, some girls even have delayed menses up to 6 years. They are caused by delayed growth which is a major problem for most warriors. The delayed growth affects every aspect of a girl’s body. Though in some girls it’s not delayed but those are few compared to those who have delayed menses.
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DeleteI have read the article and taken notes i will surrly inform my daughter at some point of all this.
ReplyDeletetahnk you
Welcome
DeleteAm Alex from USA,
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ReplyDeleteI write to you with great joy in my heart how Dr Alegbe John turned my life around. I was born a sickle cell patient through the gene- type of my parents and became a carrier which led to immense crises all through my growing up years. This particular ailment was called rheumatism, the pain of the bone which I was told was caused by difficult circulation of blood in the vein axis.
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